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International Man of Leisure - Santa Monica, CA - Summer 2019

International Man of Leisure - Santa Monica, CA - Summer 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

June 14, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Toy Cars, Last Night Saved My Life, Tennis System and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music!

Check it out now!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

June 14, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, love, passion, music, friday, playlist, apple, apple music, summer, tour, alternative, punk, rock, indie, the menzingers, Toy cars, have mercy, Last Night Saves My Life, tennis system, Mashmello, a day to remember
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Let’s go get a margarita - Venice, CA - Summer 2019

Let’s go get a margarita - Venice, CA - Summer 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

June 07, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Sanction, The Dangerous Summer, Reunions and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Oh, and plus a throwback too Alkaline Trio. I just couldn’t stop listening to A3 this week. Check it out now!

Music saves.

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-YourFriendMatt

June 07, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, love, passion, music, friday, playlist, apple, apple music, summer, tour, alternative, punk, rock, indie, alkaline trio, field medic, sanction, reunions, out of it, the dangerous summer
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Friday 6-Pack...

May 31, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from The Suitcase Junket, Summer Wars, Knope and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

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-YourFriendMatt

May 31, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, love, passion, music, friday, playlist, apple, apple music, summer, tour, alternative, punk, rock, indie, baggage
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unedited - santa monica ca - 2019

unedited - santa monica ca - 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

May 24, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Nightmarathons, New Found Glory, Field Medic, Knocked Loose, and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

May 24, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, love, passion, music, friday, playlist, apple, apple music, summer, tour, alternative, punk, rock, indie, new found glory, field medic, knocked loose, nightmarathons, baggage, wilmette
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National bike to work day 2014 - Shot on iPhone 6 - Santa Monica

National bike to work day 2014 - Shot on iPhone 6 - Santa Monica

Friday 6-Pack...

May 17, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Have Mercy, The Sonder Bombs, Broadside, and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

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-YourFriendMatt

May 17, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, love, passion, music, friday, playlist, apple, apple music, summer, tour, alternative, punk, rock, indie, have mercy, muskets, the wonder bombs, broadside, wstr, The starting line
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Tattoos on a Sunday...

May 15, 2019 by Matt Bates

"I can't say it feels good." - Me.

I have a bunch of tattoos. Some of them have a special meaning and others simply do not. One that has absolutely no meaning at all is the sandwich I have tattooed on my thigh. I guess what it really means is I love hoagies (east-coast word for sandwich) from Wawa (gas station/grocery store/coffee shop/incredible) and I love where I come from. I have met people who have tattoos that remind them of their children or deceased relatives. I have met people who have portraits on their chest and other sentimental notions that have such depth it makes you want to cry. I have also met people who got a tattoo of a hotdog because they were drunk and wanted a tattoo of a hotdog. I think the thing to remember is that tattoos mean something different to everyone.

Jamie and I have both been tattooed but never got tattooed at the same time. It has been a while since either of us has gotten any new permanently inked onto our bodies so we figured we were do. We did some research, but kept coming up blank for an artist or shop that we really thought was a perfect match for our style, or lack thereof. Finding the right shop and artist is hard.

I was at our local market a few weeks back and ran into an old friend. He had just got a few new tattoos and they looked awesome. They had vivid colors and that specific attention to detail that you want in a tattoo. He recommended his artist and shop. Boom. Just like that, we were in business. I got home and couldn't wait to tell Jamie that I had found us a shop that our friend recommended and that I like his work. We drove down to check out the shop immediately and before we knew it we had appointments.

Getting tattoos sucks. It stings. Don't let anyone tell you that it is an enjoyable experience, they are lying. The enjoyable experience is when it is over and you get a drink. The other enjoyable high comes when it’s done healing and you have an incredible piece of artwork that you carry with you everywhere you go. I love my tattoos and I can't remember what my body looked like without them.

This marks Jamie's second tattoo and she got her inner forearm done. She rules. Such a badass move. I thought she would be done in minutes because she was getting some very small and fine line-work but those thin lines come at a price, and that price is time. Mine, on the other hand, took about an hour and it's double the size of hers. I kept my traditional sailor style theme going and plan to keep it going until I barely have any skin left.

When you are younger, I feel everyone tells you to think long and hard about getting tattoos and that they won't be acceptable or you won't get a job. Those people are knuckleheads. They think mayo is spicy. If you feel like getting a friggin tattoo, do it. I don't regret any of mine and I bet you won't either.

-YourFriendMatt

May 15, 2019 /Matt Bates
tattoo, love, married, sailor jerry, traditional, los angeles, passion, delco
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Happy Friday - hang out with a cool dog today - Spring 2019

Happy Friday - hang out with a cool dog today - Spring 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

May 10, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Blink 182, Free Throw, Aaron West, and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

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-YourFriendMatt

May 10, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, love, passion, music, friday, playlist, apple, apple music, summer, tour, alternative, punk, rock, indie
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Friday 6-Pack...

May 03, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Basement, Crooked Teeth, The Bouncing Souls and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

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-YourFriendMatt

May 03, 2019 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, music, love, Apple Music, apple, california, passion, punk, rock, alternative, basement, weatherstate, standards, crooked teeth, niiice., the bouncing souls
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Never not at Disney - 2019

Never not at Disney - 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

April 26, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from The Maine, Big Nothing, Heart Attack Man and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

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-YourFriendMatt

April 26, 2019 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, california, apple, apple music, passion, punk, rock, alternative, music
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Eagle-ish...

April 24, 2019 by Matt Bates

“Dude, no fucking way.” - Me.

We just stood there. I couldn't believe it. I have been playing this game on and off for five years and have never come this close. Could I have done it? My first hole in one?

Moments earlier my friend, Ryan, and I had been lining up our shots on the 5th. It's a beautiful day out in Southern California, but when is it not? It's sunny, mid-70's, with a few white, billowing clouds spotting the blue mid-morning sky. A cool breeze washed across my face as I approached my attempt to par this hole. I have played this course before and for some reason the 5th always destroys me. I can never seem to line it up right. I took a deep breath and let it rip.

Ry was watching the ball as I slowly brought my head up. I had no idea where it went so I turned to him and asked, "Where did it go, dude?" I pivoted to look towards the green and saw the flag on the pin give a little shake as if something had struck it. I thought to myself there was no way I just nailed it. There wasn't a chance. I turned back to Ry, handed him my phone, and told him to head down in front of me, I didn't want to see it yet. He looked back with astonishing awe, "Dude, you did it." He ran towards the green and I just stood there, 100 yards away reflecting on the shot.

I had pared the last three holes and was proud of that, there was no way I could have just sunk this in one shot. It just doesn't make sense, I am not good at golf. But, maybe it's just my lucky day. I trekked down towards my shot and Ry was jumping up and down screaming, "Dude, you nailed it! It popped in and out, I know it!" My ball, from a shot taken 100 yards away, had been lying on the lip of the hole. I stiff breeze or tremor could have toppled it in. I couldn't believe it. I finally did it, the eagle quest was over. I couldn't, and still can't, believe it.

Ryan tried to convince me that it was a hole in one, but we all know it wasn't. At most, my ball might have popped in and out of the hole, potentially, for just a moment, it was a hole in one. I will take the eagle. We must have stayed there for ten minutes celebrating and holding up everyone behind us trying to tee off. I didn't care. We took photos, videos, and I am pretty sure I text everyone I have ever played golf with to show them this accomplishment.

The most humbling thing about this experience was the very next hole I sliced it back into the tree line. There we go, that's the game I am used to. Maybe it was a bit of luck from the golf gods to let me have a moment in the sun, but they promptly put me back in my place on the 6th.

Damn you, golf gods. Why must you play with my emotions like this?

-YourFriendMatt

April 24, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, golf, humor, sunday, blog, love, passion, adventure, eagle, birdie, masters
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Close - Los Angeles - Shot on iPhone

Close - Los Angeles - Shot on iPhone

Friday 6-Pack...

April 19, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week we have new tracks from Seaway, The Front Bottoms, Better Off and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

April 19, 2019 /Matt Bates
California, friday, music, passion, apple music, iphone, playlist, alterinative, rock, punk, punk rock, los angeles, seaway, Aaron west and the roaring twenties, better off, the get up kids, bad luck, the front bottoms, Kevin devine
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The Haul - RSD 2019 - Shot on iPhone

The Haul - RSD 2019 - Shot on iPhone

Records...

April 17, 2019 by Matt Bates

This past Record Store Day was incredible. I love the community vibe, the passion, and electricity that happens when a bunch of music lovers come together to celebrate their favorite music. Record Store Day 2019 celebrates the 10th year in a row I have been participating in the joys of selectively released and limited pressed selections from recording artists from all over the world. I have been able to celebrate Record Store Day in 3 different cities over the last decade and every year keeps getting better.


Here is the haul and some pictures of my buddy Alec and I celebrating at Record Surplus in Los Angeles!

There dude reading the newspaper is awesome.

There dude reading the newspaper is awesome.

Dig In.

Dig In.


-YourFriendMatt

April 17, 2019 /Matt Bates
2019, record store day, passion, music, love, Los Angeles, nashville, philadelphia
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Ventura Country - 2018 - Bring on summer

Ventura Country - 2018 - Bring on summer

Friday 6-Pack...

April 12, 2019 by Matt Bates

It’s a beautiful Friday in Southern California and we hope yours is shinning as well. This week we have new tracks from east-coasters Saver, ARMORS, Sunsleeper, and more brought to you exclusively through Apple Music! Check it out now!

We even have a bonus song from Spanish Love Songs! Congrats on them just signing to Pure Noise Records!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

April 12, 2019 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, music, passion, california, adventure, sunsleeper, armors, saver, punk, indie, alternative, rock, bands, apple, apple music
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Pulled over somewhere - PCH, Malibu, CA - 2018

Pulled over somewhere - PCH, Malibu, CA - 2018

Friday 6-Pack...

April 05, 2019 by Matt Bates

This week's playlist is a bit all over the place, but feels right. We have some new tracks from Free Throw, PUP, Knocked Loose and more! Check it out now!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

April 05, 2019 /Matt Bates
Friday, playlist, apple music, apple, mac, iphone, music, love, passion, los angeles, free throw, the winter passing, pup, teen divorce, knocked loose, simple creatures, punk, rock, alternative, indie
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Friday 6-Pack...

March 29, 2019 by Matt Bates

It is spring! Baseball is back, and it’s Friday! Who is excited? This week we have new tracks from Jail Socks, Unturned, Vermont, The Maple State, and more - brought to you exclusively on Apple Music!

Check it out now!

Music saves.

-YourFriendMatt

March 29, 2019 /Matt Bates
Friday, playlist, music, passion, California, apple, apple music, Alternative, los angeles, the maple state, Aaron west and the roaring twenties, vermont, unturned, jail socks, new found glory, punk, rock, indie
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Sunday Thoughts...

March 24, 2019 by Matt Bates

"Life is weird." - Us.

Our lives have taken us to places we never thought we would go. Jamie and I have done what we wanted for the last 6 years. Travel? check. Visit virtually every state? Check. Buy a VW Vanagon customize it, and travel the backroads of America at 40MPH hoping we don't break down or fall off the side of a Colorado mountain that doesn't have a guardrail? Check. I like to believe we have a slight extra dash of "outlier" in our recipe than others. It's not that often that people just pick up and go, follow their gut feelings, go through a ton of life experiences together, and continue to make the best of every situation. We are very lucky. We have always had the support of our families and friends, but when you are a nation away from everything you know and the comforts they bring, it's a completely different ball game.

As I sit this morning, with my coffee and a blank page, I started to reflect on how special and weird life can be. Watch any Gary V clip and he will eventually tell (yell at) his audience that there is a one in a quadrillion (I just made that word up I think) chance of being born. Which, if that is true, I haven't done the research, that is pretty freaking weird. Which begs the age-old question of, why? Why am I here? Why are you here? And, more importantly, does anything really matter? Yes, I am reflecting on WHY this morning, such a millennial.

I came across this photo in my camera roll this morning and forgot I took it. I thought it looked cool and then reflected on when I took it. We were traveling around in some California mountain town and stopped at a local brewery. Go figure. It had been a while since we had seen snow so we wanted to capture every moment. There was a mound of snow close to us so I nestled my phone in it, set the timer, ran back and bam, this photo is the results. That day was incredible. It was cold, the heater in the Van was barely working, we had to buy extra gloves, and roadside Mexican blankets to stay warm, but we made it to our destination and were able to fit a brewery in also. What else is life about if it's not about adventuring through it and finding small moments to make it all worthwhile?

Every moment is special if you let it be. I know I sound like a total hippie, but I do believe it. Everything we do can teach us or can be transformed into something unique and special. Take a second today to check out your surroundings, be grateful, take ten good breaths and try to see something from a different perspective. I think you'll find out that life is weird. Let me know what you come up with.

I hope this made sense. If not, whatever. These are my Sunday thoughts.

-YourFriendMatt

March 24, 2019 /Matt Bates
Sunday, blog, thoughts, love, passion, travel, van, van life
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Friday 6-Pack...

March 22, 2019 by Matt Bates

Spring is here! This week’s 6-Pack will try to help you shake off the snow from winter and get you in the mood to smell the roses! We have new tracks from American Football, NO WIN, PUP, and more all brought to you exclusively through Apple Music!

Check it out!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

March 22, 2019 /Matt Bates
Music, love, passion, apple, apple music, pup, no win, american football, alternative, playlist, blog, friday
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TROC...

March 17, 2019 by Matt Bates

When I was younger all I wanted to do was be in a band. I saw Back to the Future at a young age and when Marty explodes back across the room from the amp he was standing in front of, I knew that is something I needed to do. Starting a band is one of the hardest and most rewarding events I reflect on from my life. Starting the band is just the first obstacle. After you eventually find friends who are as dedicated as you to practicing and sucking together, you have to then figure out how to play in front of people and get your music into peoples heads. When we started our first bands in the suburbs of Philadelphia we never thought we would get a chance to play venues in the city with some of the coolest bands and people we have ever met, especially not at The Troc. Playing The Troc was impossible in our young minds.

We worked our balls off playing everywhere we could as often as possible and one day we were finally given a shot to play some awesome venues. I remember playing The Troc balcony more times than I can count, in God knows how many bands, and loving every second of it. Through years of grinding, failure, setbacks, deaths, blood, sweat, and many tears, we eventually worked our way to playing the main stage. The Troc was a community where we all came together, all the misfits, to play our terrible songs to each other. My parents drove us down there to catch shows, and to watch us play. My dad has hauled more equipment in and out of that place than any stagehand I have ever met. If you have ever carried an 8x10 cabinet up those balcony stairs, you know what I am talking about.

It is sad to see the doors of The Troc closing for good, but I will always remember the incredible times there, all the incredible talent that has performed there that I had the privilege to see, all the incredible people there.

Later Troc, thanks for all the good times.

-YourFriendMatt

March 17, 2019 /Matt Bates
philadelphia, friends, troc, sunday, music, passion
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change your scenery - Santa Monica, CA - Shot on iPhone - Winter 2019

change your scenery - Santa Monica, CA - Shot on iPhone - Winter 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

March 15, 2019 by Matt Bates

It’s Friday! Let’s go! This week we have some new rock-alt-indie tracks from The Hold Steady, The Bouncing Souls, The Dangerous Summer, and more - all brought to you exclusively through Apple Music!

Check it out now!

Music saves.

-YourFriendMatt

March 15, 2019 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, california, apple, apple music, alternative, punk, rock, alterinative, weigh the anchor, the hold steady, never loved, vena morris, the bouncing souls, the dangerous summer, passion
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The dude abides - Santa Monica, CA - Winter 2019

The dude abides - Santa Monica, CA - Winter 2019

Friday 6-Pack...

February 15, 2019 by Matt Bates

Tough week? Well, here is the newest installment of the 6-Pack! We have six new rock-indie-alternative tracks exclusively on Apple Music to help you get into weekend mode - including new singles from Table Talk, Cold Wreck, Terror and more! Check it out now!

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

February 15, 2019 /Matt Bates
Friday, apple, Apple Music, love, passion, curator, california, los angeles, santa monica, iphone, the dude, rock, alternative, indie, band, tour, coffee, friday
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