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The Haul - RSD 2019 - Shot on iPhone

The Haul - RSD 2019 - Shot on iPhone

Records...

April 17, 2019 by Matt Bates

This past Record Store Day was incredible. I love the community vibe, the passion, and electricity that happens when a bunch of music lovers come together to celebrate their favorite music. Record Store Day 2019 celebrates the 10th year in a row I have been participating in the joys of selectively released and limited pressed selections from recording artists from all over the world. I have been able to celebrate Record Store Day in 3 different cities over the last decade and every year keeps getting better.


Here is the haul and some pictures of my buddy Alec and I celebrating at Record Surplus in Los Angeles!

There dude reading the newspaper is awesome.

There dude reading the newspaper is awesome.

Dig In.

Dig In.


-YourFriendMatt

April 17, 2019 /Matt Bates
2019, record store day, passion, music, love, Los Angeles, nashville, philadelphia
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Probably doing something - Nashville, TN - 2016

Probably doing something - Nashville, TN - 2016

Friday 6-Pack...

August 10, 2018 by Matt Bates

It’s a hot Friday in LA, stay cool out there. This week's list brings us six new tracks that I can’t stop listening too, Dave Grohl is a unicorn. He has just released a 23-minute track entitled 'Play', all recorded himself and there is a documentary to go along with it. You must check it out. We also have a new poppy one from Dashboard, Alkaline Trio, With Confidence and more! 

Music saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy.

-YourFriendMatt

August 10, 2018 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, alternative, punk, rock, apple, apple music, curator, dashboard confessional, with confidence, Dave grohl, stay here, alkaline trio, restorations, nashville, los angeles, califonia
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Valentine, TX - 10/17/17 - Shot on iPhone 7 Plus

Valentine, TX - 10/17/17 - Shot on iPhone 7 Plus

Take me back to the road...

January 07, 2018 by Matt Bates

"Man, there ain't nothing out here." - Me.

We complained so much and stressed out over the last few weeks. Packing, unpacking, packing back up and unpacking it all again. At the time we were not the biggest fans of surviving on an endless amount of  roadside snacks or take out gas station foods for our meals, but, we both agree that we would do it again in a heartbeat; and again. And again.

Jamie and I are settling down down and getting a routine for the first time since Fall. It is great to have an address and know where you are going to be end up at the end of the day, but we both agree the excitement, and even stress, of traveling is some of the most fun we have together. There is something about waking up in the middle of nowhere, getting a crappy cup of motel coffee and planning out the adventure that lies ahead in your day.

Are we nomads? Are we destined to drive around the country with our dogs to find forgotten towns strewn across the nation and discover what's there? How can we make money doing that? How can we make a living doing that? 

-YourFriendMatt

January 07, 2018 /Matt Bates
adventure, life, california, nashville, explore, experience
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Let's do a beer.

Let's do a beer.

Friday 6-Pack...

September 29, 2017 by Matt Bates

Only a few weekends left in Nashville. Going to make them count and let some great new music be the soundtrack. This week I am excited because there is a ton of new releases I am enjoying, including tracks from Can't Swim, Sleep On It, and Such Gold. Check it out!

Listen, share and enjoy!

-YourFriendMatt

September 29, 2017 /Matt Bates
music, love, nashville, band, art, tour, can't swim, friday, rock, sleep on it, new music, Apple, apple music, apple, playlist
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Nashville, TN - Summer 2017

Nashville, TN - Summer 2017

A few weeks off...

September 24, 2017 by Matt Bates

It has been an interesting few months. I took some time off from updating YourFriendMatt.com to wrap my head around it. When I think about it, the last year has been a whirlwind. We bought our home and moved in. We got settled into a new city and routine. Jamie found work. We started making our house a home by decorating, repainted and refinishing the whole thing. We even added a deck on the back half of the house. 

If that does not sound like a lot, we just got engaged in July and set a date for late 2018. We have been busy, and I could not be more proud or excited for what will happen next.

Stay tuned.

September 24, 2017 /Matt Bates
life, nashville, engaged, love, home, adulting, busy
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Dr. Dolittle Part Two: Bird man...

June 25, 2017 by Matt Bates

"I just saved your life. Why are you so grumpy." - Me.

I am starting to feel like Ace Ventura. I have been coming across animals that need my help (See Part One of this story). Most recently I was spending my Sunday gardening and playing with our dogs in the yard. We live next to an old church, and they have their lawn cut bi-weekly. Around 11 am or so before they get started with their service the lawn-keeper comes and makes sure the grass looks good for the parishioners. I was done gardening for the day, so I decided to head back in so Jamie and I could get our mimosa on.

I was on our porch and heard a faint "cheep" come from somewhere on the churches lawn. The roar of the riding lawn mower started somewhere in the distance, so I knew the lawn-keeper was on his way. I started looking around the yard stumbled upon a little grumpy bird sitting in the grass. I gave him my best "Hey, get the hell out of here; I don't want you to get run over by a lawnmower" juke attempt, but he called my bluff and continued to sit there. I stared at him for a while, and he stared right back. I blinked first; he was good.

I did a quick internet search of what to do with an injured bird. What I found was don't touch him, put him in a paper bag or shoe box and leave him alone after. Seems easy; I can do this. I went for the search of a paper bag as lawnmower man rounded the corner of the church and was making his way towards my helpless, grumpy friend. I jumped off the porch, paper bag in hand, and leaped in front of the lawn keeper waving my arms like a moron to prevent him from blending this grumpy little guy into a bird smoothie.

We got the bird into the paper bag and left him alone. The internet also told me to leave the bag open and check on him in an hour to see if it flew away. Which, an hour later, he flew away but not before pooping in the bag and on my porch. He was a little bastard. 

-YourFriendMatt

June 25, 2017 /Matt Bates
ace ventura, animal, nashville, sunday, humor, homeowner, dr. dolittle
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It's Miller Time...

It's Miller Time...

Friday 6-Pack...

June 23, 2017 by Matt Bates

This week's list is interesting. We have some different kinds of rock. Milk Teeth bring the older vibes of 90's grunge, while Bilmuri brings almost a Cure-eske flavor to the mix. 

And, of course, with the celebration of Dude Ranch turning 20 this week, I had to throw in an old Blink track. 

 

Music Saves.

 

Share, listen and enjoy.

 

-YourFriendMatt

June 23, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, playlist, apple, apple music, love, passion, bilmuri, milk teeth, blink 182
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L.A Jackson - Nashville, TN

L.A Jackson - Nashville, TN

Friday 6-Pack...

June 09, 2017 by Matt Bates

Friday is here and it's time for some new weekend jams. Check out this super poppy collection, including Locals Only, Philadelphia's The Sixties and even a new track from Bleachers!

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

 

June 09, 2017 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, apple music, apple, the sixties, bleachers, locals only, nashville, weekend, itunes
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Friday 6-Pack...

May 26, 2017 by Matt Bates

GOLD-FINGA! This week's list is packed with poppy weekend jams including, you guessed it, new Goldfinger! We also have new, and long awaited, Pet Symmetry, as well as a long time favorite of mine Hot Mulligan...oh, and new Neck Deep I can't stop playing on repeat.

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

May 26, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, music, passion, apple, playlist, apple music, iphone
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Slim & Husky's - Nashville, TN

Slim & Husky's - Nashville, TN

Friday 6-Pack...

May 19, 2017 by Matt Bates

Another Friday and another awesome 6-Pack. I had to give it a few listens, but the new Paramore REALLY grew on me. This week's list starts off with one of my favorite tracks from After Laughter. We also have some new more groovy jams from PA's own Tigers Jaw and Macseal. We even have a new track from unknown (for now) Philadelphia crew, Captain, We're Sinking.

A lot of PA love in this 6-Pack!

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

May 19, 2017 /Matt Bates
music, apple music, tour, nashville, friday, playlist, tigers jaw, paramore, 6-pack
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Los Angeles, Ca

Los Angeles, Ca

Friday 6-Pack...

May 12, 2017 by Matt Bates

I know everyone else is geeking out about the new Paramore that just dropped, but I need to give it a few more listens before recommending anything off of it. 

This week's 6-Pack is pretty dang pop-punk. We have new Belmont, a more alternative track from Young Lincoln and a new single from Broadside. This week's list is less that 20 minutes! Perfect for doing some quick errands around the house before relaxing on the couch!

Music saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

May 12, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, love, passion, playlist, friday, broadside, young lincoln, belmont, apple, apple music, los angeles
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Secret ingredient...

Secret ingredient...

Chili with YourFriendMatt...

May 07, 2017 by Matt Bates

"Pretty sure I have 3rd degree burns." - Me

I am a very lucky guy. Jamie handles all meals in this house. She is just better at it and enjoys cooking. Every once in a while I find myself trying to impress her with my culinary skills. I have a handful of dishes I can pull off when I try. My pancakes? Get out of town, they are incredible. This past week I had a day off, and it was raining. Perfect chilly weather day for some chili (see what I did there?). I have a few different types of chili I like cooking. We have varying tastes when it comes to food. I can't get my food spicy enough where as she likes to do something she calls "actually tasting the food." So I decided to meet in the middle and use my basic chili recipe with a little heat; and a little Pabst. Making this chili is SUPER easy, hence why you can do it while drinking. *thumbs up emoji*

Without sounding like a pretentious dickhead, I try to use as many organic ingredients as I can (disregard the Pabst). Gather your ingredients and place the ground beef in a large pot and toss in the garlic. Cook over medium heat until browned, takes about 15 minutes. You can drain off the excess fat, but sometimes I do not, up to you. If I am using a leaner meat without a ton of excess fat I leave it; I think it adds some richness. Pour in the tomato sauce, chili powder, cumin, oregano, salt, some red pepper flakes, and cayenne. Stir together well, cover, and then reduce the heat to low. Simmer for 1 hour, stirring every 15 minutes or so. If the mixture becomes overly dry, add 1/2 cup beer.

After an hour, place the masa harina (essentially corn flour, but hey, were getting worldly over here) in a small bowl. Add 1/2 cup of beer and stir together with a fork. It thickens up quick so act fast! Transfer the masa mixture into the chili. Stir together well, and then taste to add any additional seasonings. This is where I usually go nuts and start adding jalapeños, a canister of red pepper flakes, and every other source of heat I have in the house, but I wanted Jamie to enjoy dinner with me, so I kept it pretty tame today. Add more masa paste or beer to get the chili to your preferred consistency. Add the beans and simmer for 10 minutes! Done! Bowl that beast - top it with cheese - get classy and throw some lime slices or some tortilla chips around and you got yourself a nice rainy-day chili!

The goods:

2 pounds ground beef

2 cloves garlic, chopped

One 15-ounce can tomato sauce

2 tablespoons chili powder or to taste

1 tablespoon of red pepper flakes

1 teaspoon ground cumin

1 teaspoon ground oregano

1 teaspoon salt or to taste

1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper

1/4 cup masa harina

One 15-ounce can kidney beans

One 15-ounce can pinto beans

Shredded Cheddar, for serving, topping, or throwing around

Tortilla chips, for serving and throwing around

Lime wedges, for serving and throwing around

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-YourFriendMatt

May 07, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, rainy days, chili, pabst, cooking, kitchen, food network, diy, beer
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Let's Build a (pallet) Garden...

April 30, 2017 by Matt Bates

“Damn it! I stapled my finger!” - Me

I love gardening. And now, I have my own home! This spring and summer are our first as homeowners. We are slowly but surely making our home more ours every month. Now that Spring is officially here I wanted to ensure we were outfitted with an exquisite garden. I also wanted to try some things I have not done yet in my agricultural career. Maximizing space (and possible mobility?) is important to me so I did some research on how I can get more vegetation per square foot and pallet gardens seemed like a modern new gardening technique to try. 

Pallets are cheap, if not free, and they are typically the correct root depth for more shallow-rooted plants, like herbs, when laid flat or stood up. I attached some photos and details below if you want to give it a try!a

STEP 1!

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Take your pallet and lay that bastard down on the ground. Wrap the gardening fabric (I got mine for $5 at Dollar General) around the back, sides and bottom of the pallet. You want to make sure the fabric is tight. Now - Staple the crap out of that thing. Pretty sure I used half a box of staples and I did 3 layers of fabric around the back, sides and bottom of my pallet.

Once you have multiple layers of fabric on your pallet it should look something like this along the back and 3 sides of it. You can now lay it down and fill it with soil and your seed or starter plants.

STEP 2!

I found it was easiest to lay the pallet down and fill it with soil, then put my starter plants in and then prop it up. Whatever works for you.

STEP 3!

I plan on getting few more starters herbs in there. I like the mobility of this type of garden. We have only been in Nashville for a few months and I am not sure how much sun my backyard will get since we have a few trees back there. This garden can be moved pretty easily if it is not getting enough sun. Let me know how yours turns out!

Materials:

Wood Pallet - You can probably get one for free on a local Wal-Mart or Mall loading dock.

Staple Gun and a SHIT load of staples.

Roll of garden fabric

3-4 bags of top soil

Herb seeds or herb starter plants

Scissors

Time

 

 

-YourFriendMatt

April 30, 2017 /Matt Bates
garden, home owner, nashville, love, passion, gardening, backyard
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From the Porch...

From the Porch...

Friday 6-Pack...On a Sunday...

April 23, 2017 by Matt Bates

(Finally) New Paramore! This week's list makes you tap your toes, snap your fingers, and dance the day away! 

This new Paramore track is different from what we have come to expect, but damn, it's good. Check it out!

This playlist also includes some very groovy vibes from Table Talk and Mom Jeans, as well as a new somber track from Have Mercy.

 

Music saves. Listen, share and enjoy!

 

 

-YourFriendMatt

April 23, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, Paramore, music, apple, Apple Music, passion, playlist, alternative, have mercy, mom jeans, iPhone
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I have absolutely no idea what I am doing...

I have absolutely no idea what I am doing...

They call me Bob the Builder...

April 23, 2017 by Matt Bates

"Oh shit, it's bleeding! Grab me a towel! And a beer!" - Me.

No household project is complete without some bloodshed. Nothing a beer can't fix.

Recently the weather has changed, and it has led Jamie and me from the black hole we get sucked into, most commonly known as the couch and Netflix, to adventure out and about through Nashville. Everyone in our neighborhood seems to be shaking the coat of winter off and working in their yards. We were inspired to start sprucing up home after a neighborhood walk. After watching some YouTube videos, we got an over-eager sense of confidence that led us to believe we could do just about any project no matter how big or small. Fix the sink? Check. Put in a raised garden? Check. Put on a glass storm door? Check. Fix and replace specific parts of the dishwasher? Uh, probably? Check. Rip up the walkway and put in a new one? Sure! That should only take me a minute! Check.

We decided the front door and the raised garden were the starting points this season. These two tasks seemed moderately simple; we have the tools to get it done, and are pretty cost effective starting points as far as home projects are concerned. After some more YouTubing, we were ready. We hit the hardware store, got what we needed and we were on the way.

Honestly, I wish I had a funnier story but putting on a storm door is a pretty straight forward process. It took me about 2 1/2 hours to install. I did hurt myself and left a little blood on the porch, but it was worth it. Any job worth doing is worth doing without any knowledge of safety.

When all was said and done this project was pretty cheap, and it added a bunch of light to our living room. This door also added value (at least for us) to our home and gave me a sense of pride. I mean just watch the video below.

 

-YourFriendMatt

April 23, 2017 /Matt Bates
home improvement, adults, sunday, home depot, bob the builder, nashville
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Friday 6-Pack...

March 24, 2017 by Matt Bates

Blink 182! Minus the Bear! The Maine! Oh my!

March 24, 2017 /Matt Bates
apple, apple music, alternative, music, love, passion, nashville, minus the bear
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100% unedited

100% unedited

Sleeping Beauty...

March 19, 2017 by Matt Bates

I have been sleeping like crap lately. I have no idea what is going on, but that does not stop Jamie and me from playing one of our favorite games. When either of us passes out on the couch, we steal each other's phones and take pictures of how great we both look sleeping. Here I am the other night. What makes this better is that you do not tell the other person to know you took their photo and let them find it on their own. I opened up my phone yesterday to show someone something for work and boom; there I am passed out, drooling on the couch.

I suggest you play. It's great.


-YourFriendMatt

March 19, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, ios, iphone, love, sleep
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February...

March 12, 2017 by Matt Bates

I did an experiment in February. I wanted to break my routines. For the last decade, I believe I have probably had at least one beer every day. It became routine. It took up time. Maybe it made me lazy when I could have been working on something. Although I do not classify myself as a lazy person, I wanted to know if there was more I could be doing instead of sitting on the couch having a brew.

There was a lot of personal growth over the last few years. I advanced in my career that moved us across the country twice, gone back to school full-time, cultivated a lifestyle of positivity, go to the gym a few times a week, launched a creative blog that I update weekly, curate and publish weekly playlists for emerging artists, and still actively perform music. Sounds like a lot, but maybe there is more.

By checking social media, scrolling through thousands of pictures for extended periods of time, sitting on the couch and enjoying an adult beverage, I wondered how that was adding anything positive to my life. I was looking for a reset and February seemed to be a perfect time. My birthday is January 31st, so figured I could go out with a bang on my birthday and start fresh on February 1st. 

Breaking routines and mental queues is not easy, but I accomplished it. I went a full month with no social media, no credit cards and (strike up the band) no alcohol of any kind. Yikes. It was not as hard as I thought or seems. I found myself on my days off and weekends adventuring around Nashville a little bit more, taking up new hobbies, finding new restaurants and cafes instead of going to the local dive. 

It was a great reset. I read more. I took up rock climbing. I took more walks and explored the neighborhood. I took my dogs out more. I engaged in more conversations and even forgot my phone twice when I went to work. My credit score went up, and I got caught up on some minor debts that I wanted to pay off. I saved a bunch of money that I would have used to grab some beer and paid off most of my Discover card. Unplugging was refreshing.

We are in March now, and I have noticed that a lot of the changes have impacted my routines. Since my February detox, I am more aware of how often I pick up my phone and check it for no reason at all. I have found myself in March just standing with my phone and wondering why I even picked it up. Going to the fridge and grabbing a beer or even buying beer isn't top of mind (for the most part - I love beer). It is interesting to see how a few minor changes can open your eyes and that is what I was looking to do in February.

I celebrated with friends on March 1st and went back to the bar. It was fun, and I do love having drinks with friends, sharing posts and photos and seeing less debt when I open up my financial apps. Now I am more conscience about how many times I am checking my phone. I feel I notice myself doing it less, reminding myself to put the phone down and look up to see the awesomeness that is going on around me.

Now, who wants to grab a beer?


-YourFriendMatt

 

 

Breaking and changing habits can be hard. If you want to see how many times you check your phone every day, download this app Checky. It may blow your mind.

March 12, 2017 /Matt Bates
nashville, dependency, pabst, 30, iphone, detox, beer, instagram, facebook, February, march
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Friday 6-Pack...

March 10, 2017 by Matt Bates

Took some time off to get centered...so much music to catch up on and curate!

Here are some alternative-pop jams I found while I was away including The Maine, Bearings, The Menzingers and more!

Share. Listen. Enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

March 10, 2017 /Matt Bates
apple, apple music, love, passion, the maine, the menzingers, nashville, alternative, tour, band, music, playlist, friday
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See? I can't even just look at the Pacific. I had to 'Go Live' for it.

See? I can't even just look at the Pacific. I had to 'Go Live' for it.

Social Media Hiatus...

February 01, 2017 by Matt Bates

I spend way too much time scrolling on my iPhone. When I calculate the time I spend looking through Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and all the other time wasters I use too many times a day, it blows my mind. This February I will be taking a break from social media to lift my head from the screen to see whats going on around me. Who knows maybe I will write more, read more or even work on the book I swear I am going to finish. Maybe I will spend more time running, meditating, hiking, working on projects in the house, finding new restaurants or walking around the neighborhood. Maybe I will be completely lost and go through withdraw, who knows. This hiatus challenge I want to stick to and get plugged back into my surroundings instead of seeing what pop culture is up too. It’ll be interesting to hear about new music, movies, shows and other things I am interested in from my friends like I use to, rather than mindlessly scrolling through thousands of photo posts.

Let’s see what happens.


-YourFriendMatt

February 01, 2017 /Matt Bates
social media, February, iphone, instagram, facebook, nashville, fitness, meditation, twitter
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