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This never gets old - on a Thursday - Santa Monica, CA - May 2018 - Shot on iPhone 

This never gets old - on a Thursday - Santa Monica, CA - May 2018 - Shot on iPhone 

Friday 6-Pack...

May 18, 2018 by Matt Bates

Friday! Here are six new songs that got me through the week! Standouts to us are Toy Cars, Afterparty, and Limbs. Toy Cars has been a band I have been watching for a little while and their new full length 'Paint Brain' does not disappoint. Afterparty is new to me but their riffy single on this weeks list sets up the weekend just right. Limbs were brought to my attention by one of my friends who grew up with them in Florida. They have already signed to Equal Vision and have a big career in front of them in the metal scene. 

We also have a catchy new single from Lake Street Dive, a slower one from folk-rock heroes Lucero, an alternative track from female-led vocal band Behind the Facade. Check it out!

Music Saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy!

-YourFriendMatt

May 18, 2018 /Matt Bates
music, apple music, love, passion, folk, rock, alternative, punk, indie, pop punk, apple
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Sometime in the 90's - Delco, Pa

Sometime in the 90's - Delco, Pa

Thanks, Mom...

May 13, 2018 by Matt Bates

Mom,

Thanks for allowing me to be me, challenging me to do better, and holding me accountable when I was a complete idiot. I did not know it at the time, but you were doing your best to make sure I would grow up to be a good man. I thought you were being mean by making me do my homework immediately when I got home from school. I thought you were just a tyrant when you gave us a curfew. I thought it was ridiculous how we would have to finish a list of chores before we could do anything or go out with our friends, but now I appreciate it. 

I hope you have a relaxing and enjoyable Mother's Day. We wish we could be there to help you celebrate. We look forward to seeing you in a few weeks!

Love you and have a great day!

-Matt

May 13, 2018 /Matt Bates
mom, mothers day, california, delco, philadelphia, love, family
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Wednesday - May 2018 - Santa Monica, CA - Unedited - Shot on iPhone

Wednesday - May 2018 - Santa Monica, CA - Unedited - Shot on iPhone

Friday 6-Pack...

May 11, 2018 by Matt Bates

What a week, but you did it! We have some new tracks this week from LA local Tennis System, The Seafloor Cinema, and Woes! I am always looking for new music and found out about Tennis System while standing in line at Record Surplus for Record Store Day 2018. Tennis System are local here in the LA area but I would keep my eye on the if I were you!

We also have new tracks from Luca, Northbound and FigureItOut! This weeks list will power you through your afternoon slump and get your to the weekend in one piece! Check it out!

Music saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy!

-YourFriendMatt

May 11, 2018 /Matt Bates
playlist, friday, music, apple music, apple, rock, indie, alternative, pop punk
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Cruising Somewhere in Southern California - 2018 - Shot on iPhone

Cruising Somewhere in Southern California - 2018 - Shot on iPhone

Big Red 2...

May 09, 2018 by Matt Bates

“It’s like driving a fishbowl.” - Us.

We did it. We got our van back. Who knew we were van people?

We use to live in Southern California and left for a few years to move to Nashville. During our time on the Gold Coast we bought an old Volkswagen Vanagon and loved taking it on adventures. Due to the logistics of moving, we sold the van (Big Red) before moving to Nashville. During our time in Music City, we wished we hadn’t sold Big Red and yearned for the days of drifting through beach lined roads in the sun. We loved taking cruises us the Pacific Coast Highway or taking Big Red to a hike. It was something we had wished we could get back to. 

As luck would have it, Jamie got a job offer back in Los Angeles, so we moved back. Since our returned to Santa Monica, we have been scouring Craiglist, GoWesty, and FaceBook Marketplace for a new (old) van. And by god, we found it. After months of hunting, haggling, being lead on, or meeting internet creeps; we finally found someone who cared as much as we did about Vanagons and wanted to sell us one that was worthwhile. Welcome, Big Red 2!

Finding Big Red 2 means we will get to fulfill our honeymoon dream of driving around the country again, seeing crazy new city’s, trying new food, meeting interesting new people, and seeing wherever the road takes us. If or when we ever decide to move again we will be taking her with us on our mobile home. We plan on teaching our kids how to drive in this thing. Which, is a wild idea.

See you on the road!

-YourFriendMatt

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May 09, 2018 /Matt Bates
California, volkswagen, westafilia, vanagon, van life, los angeles
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Let's go to Disney...

May 06, 2018 by Matt Bates

"So, did you have a good birthday?." - Me.

Recently my future in-laws were in town. Jamie and I love having familiar faces in town and love it, even more, when we get to play "host" at Disneyland. We have been on-and-off pass holders at the happiest place on Earth for the last few years. Whenever our families come to stay with us, we put them through the gauntlet of ducking and diving through crowds to get to Space Mountain on time or get the best spot for whatever the seasonal parades are.

This time around we had the additional excitement of celebrating Jamie's mother's birthday as well. Obviously, we got her the ceremonial birthday button, surprise desserts with meals and birthday wishes from cast members throughout the park all day to help bring in her new year. Disney just knows how to help you celebrate. We spent the day hearing, "Happy Birthday, April" being shouted with excitement from every direction all day. This constant excitement powers a typical day and is exemplified when it's your birthday.

But, it is not only the atmosphere that helps make any moment, dare I say, magical, but it is also the people you choose to spend time with. I consider myself a fortunate man. I am continually surrounded by people that make me more intelligent, more positive and challenge me to be a better person. I have so many incredible people in my life and appreciate it every day. Life should be incredible; it's too short not to be. 

I made a very silly, and very amateur, project attached above - all shot and edited on my iPhone X while in the park. Technology is incredible. Check it out and critique! 

Nothing but the best to you and your family!

-YourFriendMatt

Hello, World!

May 06, 2018 /Matt Bates
Disney, Disneyland, family, love, apple, mac, imovie, California, iphone
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Santa Monica, CA - Spring 2015 - Shot on iPhone 6

Santa Monica, CA - Spring 2015 - Shot on iPhone 6

Friday 6-Pack...

May 04, 2018 by Matt Bates

Another beautiful Friday and another 6-Pack to cruise into the weekend listening too. We have a new rock track from one of my all-time favorites, Jimmy Eat World, as well as LA locals This Wild Life and Tennis System. Check it out!

We also have a pop-rock track from World's Greatest Dad, a heavier single from Fake a Home, and vocal-driven single from Heart to Gold.

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

May 04, 2018 /Matt Bates
apple, apple music, love, passion, music, jimmy eat world, this wild life, tennis system, World's Greatest Dad, Fake a Home, Heart of Gold, rock, alternative, pop punk
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Disneyland Hotel, CA - Spring 2018 - Shot on iPhone X - unedited

Disneyland Hotel, CA - Spring 2018 - Shot on iPhone X - unedited

Friday 6-Pack...

April 27, 2018 by Matt Bates

Welcome to the weekend! Here are six new alternative rock tracks to get it stared! This weeks list includes tracks from First Ghost, Jank, and Heavy Things! Listen, enjoy and share!

We also have a pop-punk single from Lost in Society, an easy-listener from The Maple State, and an intricate track from itoldyouiwouldeatyou.

Music saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

April 27, 2018 /Matt Bates
Disney, Disneyland, California, music, apple, apple music, alternative, punk, rock
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Mobile Home - Santa Monica - 2018 - Shot on iPhone

Mobile Home - Santa Monica - 2018 - Shot on iPhone

Friday 6-Pack...

April 20, 2018 by Matt Bates

Friday! Let's cruise into the weekend together and enjoy six new rock tracks I found this week from All Get Out, Stages and Stereos, and one of my long time favorites Save Face (who just recently signed with legendary punk rock label Epitaph Records). We also have some new solid singles from Undercast, Stars Hollow and Lonely Avenue. 

 

Music Saves.

 

Listen, enjoy, and share!

 

-YourFriendMatt

April 13, 2018 /Matt Bates
friday, playlist, apple, Apple Music, love, passion, rock, indie, alternative, southpaw, woes, charmer, the republic of wolves, the weekend classic, the American classic
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DIY Engagement Photos - Malibu - Early 2018

DIY Engagement Photos - Malibu - Early 2018

Six months out...

April 08, 2018 by Matt Bates

“Holy fuck. There is still so much left to do.” - Jamie - 4/5/18

We are less than six months away from our wedding and starting to feel the pressure. We got a ton of the big stuff out of the way (huge thanks to our parents!). We got the venue, food, Jamie’s got a dress, we sent out the save the dates, we got the DJ squared away, but somehow there are still things to do. Who knew a table card could double as a take-home gift? I didn’t even know you needed to provide a take-home gift. Also, HOW much to flowers cost? 

Obviously, we are going to need booze. I more than likely need a suit of some kind. . I have been told a tuxedo tee shirt won’t cut it. It’s incredible how many small details go into planning a wedding. I have to imagine it is only harder when you are planning from across the country. We are located in Los Angeles and will be getting married in Philadelphia.

There is a piece of us that wants to go through this process and have a huge celebration of our love. I love our love, so I want to celebrate it in front of as many people I care about. I am sure we will be glad we did it once all is said and done. Someone told me this might be the last time everyone is gathered to celebrate such a huge moment in your life that is just for you; it stood out to me. At the same time there is a piece of us that wishes we just went to the Grand Canyon, eloped, and then just flew back to Delco (southern suburb of Philadelphia, google it. Trust me, it’s worth it.), married and through a big ass party. 

Although we are overwhelmed now I know, we will get this done. We have our checklists, spreadsheets and day planners synced through iCloud. It’s all about breaking it down to bite size chunks and setting measurable goals; just like anything else in life. Besides plenty of people have done this before with even smaller time frames. We are feeling the pressure now, but I know it will be worth it; especially since we are currently planning our honeymoon! Regardless of how we are feeling now we always end up happy together at the end of the day, its a marriage, not a one day party.

 

-YourFriendMatt

April 08, 2018 /Matt Bates
Engagement, Engaged, Love, 2018, DIY
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Tombstone AZ - Late 2017 - Shot on iPhone

Tombstone AZ - Late 2017 - Shot on iPhone

Friday 6-Pack...

April 06, 2018 by Matt Bates

Holy moly, it’s been a good week for some great jams! New, new, new The Wonder Years, Crooked Teeth, The Get Up Kids and much more! It is wild to see how far The Wonder Years have come. 'Sister Cities' marks The Wonder Years sixth studio album and a new direction for the band. From what I am hearing, a bit slower, more emotion, but still has a sense of DIY-Philadelphia grit that we have come to expect from the band.

California rocker's Crooked Teeth have also released new music this week, and I am calling it now, this band will be headlining shows across the country (and beyond) very soon. To my surprise, The Get Up Kids released new music and an upcoming tour - and it is precisely what you would expect from them. We also have some new tracks from The Overcast, Spanish Love Songs, and The Penske File. 

Give this Friday 6-pack a listen now!

Music Saves.

Listen, enjoy, and share!

-YourFriendMatt

April 06, 2018 /Matt Bates
the get up kids, the wonder years, crooked teeth, the overcast, the Penske file, Spanish love songs
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Santa Monica, CA - 2018 - Shot on iPhone X

Santa Monica, CA - 2018 - Shot on iPhone X

Friday 6-Pack...

March 30, 2018 by Matt Bates

Stick with me. This week's list is a little all over the place, but so was the week. We have some new Hot Mulligan, which my friends and I are debating about it being the best release so far this year. We also have some new Punchline, a staple in my hometown. Good Old War also graces us with a new chill jam. This week's 6-Pack starts off soft and ends pretty hard. Like I said, its weird, I know. 

Listen now!

Music saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy!

-YourFriendMatt

March 30, 2018 /Matt Bates
Punchline, good old war, hot mulligan, blacklisted, trophy room, alternative, punk, pop punk, apple, apple music, love, passion, playlist, friday
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Morning Session - Shot on iPhone - Santa Monica, CA - March 2018

Morning Session - Shot on iPhone - Santa Monica, CA - March 2018

Friday 6-Pack...

March 23, 2018 by Matt Bates

So many great releases! Such a great Friday!

Check out this weeks list including Hot Mulligan (Happy Release day!), McCafferty (Happy Release day!), Daggermouth, Vacationer and more!

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share, and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

March 23, 2018 /Matt Bates
apple, apple music, playlist, friday, alternative, pop punk, rock, hot mulligan, McCaffery, Vacontioner, los angeles, California, passion
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Let's talk. - Downtown LA - Shot on iPhone - March 2018

Let's talk. - Downtown LA - Shot on iPhone - March 2018

Friday 6-Pack

March 16, 2018 by Matt Bates

Friday’s alt-rock list is here and it’s packed with a bunch of new tracks from artists I’ve never heard of before including tracks from Holy Pinto, Layover, Charmer, and Gulfer! We also have some Bilmuri, a personal favorite of mine, and Twin Peaks!

LISTEN NOW!!!

Music Saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy.

-YourFriendMatt

March 16, 2018 /Matt Bates
apple, apple music, friday, bilmuri, layover, twin peaks, holy pinto, charmer, gulfer, playlist, rock, alternative, indie
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Friday 6-Pack...

March 09, 2018 by Matt Bates

FRIDAY!!!

NEW MUSIC!

MOOSE BLOOD!! LIKE PACIFIC!! OLD NOTES!! RALLY CAP!! THE HAPPY ALRIGHT!! LIFTED BELLS!! 

LISTEN NOW!!!

Music Saves.

Listen, share, and enjoy.

-YourFriendMatt

March 09, 2018 /Matt Bates
moose blood, like pacific, old notes, rally cup, the happy alright, lifted bells, playlist, friday, apple, apple music
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Hi, I'm Matt. - Made on iPad Pro - Santa Monica, Ca - 2018

Hi, I'm Matt. - Made on iPad Pro - Santa Monica, Ca - 2018

March 09, 2018 by Matt Bates
March 09, 2018 /Matt Bates
california, iPad pro, today at apple, technology, passion, creative, fun
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Santa Monica CA - February 2018 - Shot on iPhone X

Santa Monica CA - February 2018 - Shot on iPhone X

Friday 6-Pack...

March 02, 2018 by Matt Bates

We did it! It’s Friday! Here are six tracks that got me through the week I found on Apple Music! I have been a HUGE fan of Can't Swim for a while now, and I love how they keep putting out incredible albums and singles! 'In Between' is their new track and I am in love. Give it a listen! We also have some new tracks from bands I discovered this week including Summer Wars, At Face Value, a punk rock track from A Shell Corporation, and another long time favorite of mine from Jersey; Young Statues! If that wasn't enough this week's list also has a new driving track from Moose Blood!

 

Jam packed and ready to rock.

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share, and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

March 02, 2018 /Matt Bates
iphone, iPhone X, apple, photography, music, love, passion, Apple Music, playlist, friday, can't swim
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Shot on iPhone X - February 2018 - Santa Monica CA

Shot on iPhone X - February 2018 - Santa Monica CA

Photo Walk...

March 02, 2018 by Matt Bates

Recently I took a photo walk with some friends through the streets and scenic ocean views of Santa Monica. It is always great taking photos with your iPhone when you come across an opportunity to take a picture, but intentionally going out with that as your primary objective changes it up a bit. I would absolutely recommend hitting up a Photo Walk at your local Apple Store to get started. They provide you with all the accessories and knowledge to get out there and get started. Included some of the shots I took over a 90-minute session below. These are all completely unedited and turned out incredible.

The Moon
The Moon

One of my friends saw me taking a photo of the buildings and trees; then they asked if I was taking a picture of the moon. I guess I was.

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Santa Monica
Santa Monica

"Matt, it looks better when the lights come on."

Zoom
Zoom

2x zoom and still looking good.

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March 02, 2018 /Matt Bates
apple, photo walk, today at apple, iphone, photography, passion
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Redondo Beach, CA - Winter 2018

Redondo Beach, CA - Winter 2018

Friday 6-Pack...

February 23, 2018 by Matt Bates

We did it. We finished the week! Another Friday and another six poppy jams to send us into the weekend!

We got a new track from TX power pop trio, Waterparks. We also have a newly released single from UK rockers, Milestones. Their new album will be out shortly. This list also includes the pop-punk stylings of  Yearbooks, Frontside, Household and one of my new favorites out of the mighty Chicago rock scene, Cup Check. This weeks list is packed with catchy hooks, somber lyrics and will get your toes tapping throughout the day. 

 

Music saves.

 

Listen, share and enjoy!

 

-YourFriendMatt

February 23, 2018 /Matt Bates
waterparks, household, cup check, Milestones, yearbooks, frontside, apple, apple music, friday, playlist, pop punk, alternative, indie
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6 books - Every page filled - Los Angeles, CA - 2018

6 books - Every page filled - Los Angeles, CA - 2018

One Year of Journaling...

February 21, 2018 by Matt Bates

“For the last time, no. No, I don’t want to read about the last year of my life?” - Jamie.

Over a year ago I committed to journal every morning before starting my day. This month marks the one year anniversary of writing at least a page a day and clearing my mind daily. I am happy to report that I believe journaling has helped me stay organized, departmentalize and prioritize what is most important; as well as helping me to clean my minds slate every day.

Benefit: Getting Rid of Problems

Journaling has helped me get over silly issues. I feel as if once it is on the page and out of my head, the issue is gone. There is no reason to give it any more attention. I have often gone back to specific dates throughout the year to see my progress or what I was doing in a specific timeframe. Going back in time makes me giggle about how concern I was about something that does not currently matter anymore. It gives me a sense of affirmation that I was right about the issue in the first place. Journal has given me a sense of reassurance.

Benefit: Staying Organized

I have gone through a different version of how I have set up my journal. A piece that has helped me stay on target has been dedicating a section to tasks that need my attention now and what can wait. I have been working on prioritization for a while now and know that keeping a daily log of what I need to get done has helped me. It feels great to go back through the week or month and see what I have accomplished. If there are things I haven’t done, I can see them and decided if they are still important and if I need to accomplish them. 

Benefit: Staying Thankful

We have a lot to be thankful for. My incredible friend told me about something that he does every morning before getting the day started. He thinks of three things that he is grateful for and tries to think if he did not have them. These are simple things like a coffee mug. Imagine if you did not have a great coffee mug, it would suck, wouldn’t it? There can also be incredible things to be grateful for like clean running water whenever you want it. Now, imagine if you couldn’t get up right now, go to the faucet and turn on the water. How bad would that suck? Starting your day with a thankful headspace gives you perspective on the day and has helped me deal with some crazy situations like our cross-country move to LA to planning our wedding.

If you have ever wondered about journaling, I have included some great resources below to help get you started and some links to the journals I find the most useful. Give it a try. Write something every day no matter what it is and see how you feel at the end of the week. If you hate it stop, but if you find value at picking your own brain than it may be a useful tool for you to change your life.

Or not. Either way.

 

-YourFriendMatt

Amazing Little Book
Amazing Little Book

Fits in your pocket and has a bunch of extra tools printed on the inside. Makes you feel like a boss.

The O.G.
The O.G.

This one has never let me down. Always get black. Always get the plain layout. Always get pocket size. Always journal like a pro. Shit, I am pretty sure Thomas Jefferson carried around something like this.

Incredi-pens
Incredi-pens

My buddy gave me one of these and I never looked back. Smooth and concise. Perfect for a quick journal.

February 21, 2018 /Matt Bates
Journal, Journaling, life, Journaling Tips, California, los angeles, field notes, moleskine
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